I suspect
that at some point just about every American child has been urged, “Be a
leader, not a follower.” Schools promise to produce leaders; some even have
incorporated it as part of their missions. Current leadership espouses
distributed leadership. The idea is that everyone can be a leader in some form
or fashion. How it manifests itself depends on context.
I embrace
such thinking for several reasons. It chips away at traditional notions of
leadership, many of which emphasize particular personality traits and hierarchy
over other qualities. It’s more respectful of diverse individualism and
nurtures greater motivation and commitment. Progress can come faster as more
people paddle together. So I fully agree that we should be helping people learn
how to lead better. My concern is with what we incorrectly put at the other end
of the spectrum.
Follower is a pejorative. I understand
why, given the way we often use it and the subsequent connotation. Certainly we
don’t want someone to be simply a follower. However, I have a simply
contention, albeit one that may initially seem counter intuitive. Just as we
strive to teach leadership, we should be teaching wise followership. Who and
how one follows factors heavily into one’s leadership, both as it initially
forms and its evolution.
I’ve
pondered this notion for a long time, and I’ve touched upon it briefly in
various posts. Always present in my thinking to some degree, it’s come to the
forefront recently as I’ve read a preview copy of Stephen Valentine and Reshan
Richard’s book coming this July, Blending
Leadership: Six Simple Beliefs for Leading Online and Off. (It’s a wonderful
book with excellent insights about leadership in general, and I recommend
people purchase a copy as soon as it comes out.)Two passages rekindled my
thoughts on this topic. They write, “Our beliefs emerged from many places: from
our own practice and observation; from the Ahmads who entered our lives with
curiosity and playfulness, pushing us to turn over our perspectives; from our
own leading and teaching, from our own leadership anthropology; from continual
conversations with each other and with people at conferences and with authors
we have only read. As we have tried things or tried them on and looked around or
listened or succeeded or failed, belief statements cohered” (27). Shortly
after, they point out that school leaders “not only follow thought leaders, but
also engage actively with them, building off their work, their thinking, as if
it were a platform” (36).
In so many
ways, we become who we follow, consciously and unconsciously. It can be as
large as adopting philosophies and practices to imitating physical mannerisms
and verbal tics. It’s how we learn, beginning the moment we become aware of
ourselves and others as unique beings, becoming stronger as we develop a sense
of the person we wish to become. The danger comes when we lost that sense of
self and begin to follow blindly, unthinkingly. Instead, it must be reflective,
critical, challenging. It must hoist one out of any echo chamber.*
Essentially,
it’s about learning. About oneself and about others and about the endless interactions
between all those pieces. About
possibilities. And the greatest possibilities are realized when we both lead
and follow well.
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*There
are, of course, many ways one can practice good followership. Ideally, I would
share some here. However, I think that would become too long a tangent from the
principal arc of the post. Perhaps the next post…